By Rita Okoye
Monalisa Stephen, a plus-sized Nollywood actress and content creator known for her outspoken nature has opened up about her approach to life and sexual pleasures, especially after enduring a difficult chapter in her romantic life.
Emerging from an abusive relationship, Monalisa says she’s healing and not ready to mingle.
“I just came out of something that almost took my life. Now I am resting from relationships, healing, and seeing a therapist. My ex is a complete narcissist and Number one hater. Every independent woman out there needs to watch out who they date. There are a lot of wolves in sheep’s clothing,” she told Saturday Sun.
Wondering how this sexy diva derives sexual pleasure when the need arises, Monalisa is refreshingly honest. “I am in love with myself. If I’m really in the mood for sex, I masturbate. I’m not a big fan of sex toys, but I have a vibrator and my hands. They’re good enough,” she asserted.
Monalisa has long been a vocal advocate for body positivity. Despite societal pressures and harsh criticisms, she has never desired to conform to slim standards. “Contrary to what some bullies say, I have never wished to be slim. I love that I am fat. I feel bad if I lose weight. Even during my recent domestic violence situation that made me lose a lot of weight, I felt really bad and started eating like a thief to gain my weight back. I have never been intimidated by being fat! Maybe as a child I was, but I am grown now, and I know what I want,” she asserted.